Real Fact Of Facebook Relations
Sometimes cyclic confusion held between friends. If you are in a true
friendship and your affections are pure towards each other friend.
Then
you can sort out this type of confusion otherwise you can't understand
and it murder your relationship. Only two sincere friends can stand
throughout all.
Example.
Once a boy and a girl became friends.
First 3 months were wonderful both enjoy it and still remember those
days. Within these months they became best friends. Girl share
everything to her boyfriend and boy also want to talk to his gf to share
experiences. But girl start avoiding him due to afraid of love that,
boy may not fall in love. She want to live friends forever. Because she
already love someone. Boy understand this situation and ready to live
whole life beside her as a best friend. But girl not aware about it and
continue avoiding. Girl want to talk and want to live friend of him but
live silent. Boy move on crazy, and don't want to lose her. He began
afraid that might one day he lose her. Girl also afraid to lose him. He
became crazier and crazier. He found himself helpless and hopeless. He
often cry to remember his beautiful time with her. He missed a lot her
talking style her care for him. But couldn't do anything.
On the
other hand girl assume he will never forgive me which I done. After few
he will unfriend me. Before he unfriend I have to leave him. When I
completely forget about him then I will online and continue new life.
Girl left him without unfriend him. Boy assume she left me for forever
and she will never come back. Boy started waiting of her.
6 Months later
Girl become and when she saw she still friend of him. She surprised to
see nothing was changed within 6 months as I left as I am seeing it now.
She dropped in confusion why he don't unfriend me?
She said sorry
to him and made promise next time she will not leave him. Boy became
happy to see it and want to talk to her. He angerly forced her to talk
but girl saw his angerness and afraid to lose him. She assume again
after few day he will unfriend me. Now this can't be control by me. Its
live better to leave him. She did it same. Boy considered that now she
left him forever in darkness of his life.
3 Months later,
she
became online and shocked again to see, boy still friend of her. She
confused again. cycle lived continue & 2 times this cycle run by 2
months gap in each. Both frustate on each other due to angerness. After
all girl sent a message in which she demanded final decision from the
boy. What should we have to do. Our friendship should be continue or
not. After you I will use it for my fav pics. When boy read this message
in hurry he send a message to discontinue friendship. After sending it
he started thinking about her last message. Why did she leave decision
on me? Why did she not take decision own? Why she will continue using
own id after me? Then he related it to previous happenings. He start
thinking why she join again and again after leaving me? What did she
actually expect before leaving me? All misunderstandindstarted
converting into understandings. Whole condition was clear now in his
mind he type message again it should be continue. And then he explained
whole cyclic confusion to her. He said about himself that he is not
leaving her or unfriend her because he was waiting when she will be
normal and understand him. When she will not afraid to lose him. After
reading the message of boy. Girl excited to chat with boy. Both don't
know what will be the chat between them. Both hope, now everything will
be fine soon.
Both stay friends in a period of cyclic misunderstanding more than 1.5
years. They are sincere so they solve it. If one of them not live
sincere then friendship can never survive in such type of intense
conditions. They are really Magi.
Be careful such type of cyclic confusions. Sometimes we never realize
and expect what other feel and why he do it which hurt us. Never assume
by own self about others it always create misunderstandings that always
create distances and can become a reason of breakup.
Best of luck for future and Take care of own and your loved ones
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