Friday, 13 March 2015

Real Fact Of Facebook Relations

Sometimes cyclic confusion held between friends. If you are in a true friendship and your affections are pure towards each other friend.

Then you can sort out this type of confusion otherwise you can't understand and it murder your relationship. Only two sincere friends can stand throughout all.
Example.
Once a boy and a girl became friends. First 3 months were wonderful both enjoy it and still remember those days. Within these months they became best friends. Girl share everything to her boyfriend and boy also want to talk to his gf to share experiences. But girl start avoiding him due to afraid of love that, boy may not fall in love. She want to live friends forever. Because she already love someone. Boy understand this situation and ready to live whole life beside her as a best friend. But girl not aware about it and continue avoiding. Girl want to talk and want to live friend of him but live silent. Boy move on crazy, and don't want to lose her. He began afraid that might one day he lose her. Girl also afraid to lose him. He became crazier and crazier. He found himself helpless and hopeless. He often cry to remember his beautiful time with her. He missed a lot her talking style her care for him. But couldn't do anything.
On the other hand girl assume he will never forgive me which I done. After few he will unfriend me. Before he unfriend I have to leave him. When I completely forget about him then I will online and continue new life. Girl left him without unfriend him. Boy assume she left me for forever and she will never come back. Boy started waiting of her.

6 Months later

Girl become and when she saw she still friend of him. She surprised to see nothing was changed within 6 months as I left as I am seeing it now. She dropped in confusion why he don't unfriend me?
She said sorry to him and made promise next time she will not leave him. Boy became happy to see it and want to talk to her. He angerly forced her to talk but girl saw his angerness and afraid to lose him. She assume again after few day he will unfriend me. Now this can't be control by me. Its live better to leave him. She did it same. Boy considered that now she left him forever in darkness of his life.
3 Months later,
she became online and shocked again to see, boy still friend of her. She confused again. cycle lived continue & 2 times this cycle run by 2 months gap in each. Both frustate on each other due to angerness. After all girl sent a message in which she demanded final decision from the boy. What should we have to do. Our friendship should be continue or not. After you I will use it for my fav pics. When boy read this message in hurry he send a message to discontinue friendship. After sending it he started thinking about her last message. Why did she leave decision on me? Why did she not take decision own? Why she will continue using own id after me? Then he related it to previous happenings. He start thinking why she join again and again after leaving me? What did she actually expect before leaving me? All misunderstandindstarted converting into understandings. Whole condition was clear now in his mind he type message again it should be continue. And then he explained whole cyclic confusion to her. He said about himself that he is not leaving her or unfriend her because he was waiting when she will be normal and understand him. When she will not afraid to lose him. After reading the message of boy. Girl excited to chat with boy. Both don't know what will be the chat between them. Both hope, now everything will be fine soon.

Both stay friends in a period of cyclic misunderstanding more than 1.5 years. They are sincere so they solve it. If one of them not live sincere then friendship can never survive in such type of intense conditions. They are really Magi.

Be careful such type of cyclic confusions. Sometimes we never realize and expect what other feel and why he do it which hurt us. Never assume by own self about others it always create misunderstandings that always create distances and can become a reason of breakup.

Best of luck for future and Take care of own and your loved ones

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